How To Get Casual Sex When You Want It

The truth on how and where to get casual sex in South Africa without needing to trawl bars for drunk girls and guys…

Ever wondered how those men and women manage to go out and get casual sex whenever they damn well feel like it? I was always hearing from male friends about how they went out to a Port Elizabeth club, “pulled” this super-fit chick, took her home, ravaged her something rotten, and then kicked her out before the morning light even hit, without even the slightest mention of ever seeing or speaking to them again.

Once upon a time, I used to wonder how these guys did stuff like that, and it was only when I ventured into the world of casual sex, and how to get it, that I realized it wasn’t just guys doing the dirty, it would seem.

Casual sex is something that often proves quite difficult to get your hands on. Some guys, for example, may think it’s immoral to take home a random, drunk hot chick home from the local Cape Town bar they happened to bounce into that night. Believe it or not, there are guys that don’t believe in this way of finding casual sex… There are some good guys out there after all, it would appear! 🙂

At the same time, the ladies aren’t entirely comfortable with the idea of taking a random guy home from a club… They are never sure whether they are the real deal or an axe murderer/weirdo/mugger/etc.

To be fair, it’s not the kind of conversation you can have in a busy night club, is it?

“Hi fit chick, what are you up to once the club kicks out? I only live around the corner in Hout Bay, and I’d love to take you home for the night. NSA… What do you think?”

It’s hardly a conversation that would go down well with a respectable young lady, is it? Well, perhaps not respectable but you don’t know that yet!

Of course, as much as you may think that taking a drunk girl home might be immoral, striking up a conversation with her is not. You might not want to take her home tonight, because of the situation, but if you give it a couple of days and let her get over her hangover, and that beautiful wild child might just be the girl you are looking for. Just because you’re not interested tonight, doesn’t mean that you won’t be interested, and you won’t get what you want, at a later date. There’s no harm in swapping numbers, and if it turns out that she’s in a relationship/looking for a relationship/not looking for NSA fun, you can respectfully decline the date invitation and move on.

The internet is the perfect place to start when it comes to looking for casual sex or NSA fun in South Africa. And before you argue that a lot of the websites are scams, they aren’t. You just need to pay attention to WHAT sites you are signing up to. If it looks a bit dodgy, it probably is. That’s all I’m saying.

These websites are SPECIFICALLY designed to help men and women looking for NSA, casual sex in South Africa… What’s the point in them being there to help you and you not using them? All it takes is a few minutes of sign-up questions and you’ll be looking through hot foxes and delicious ab-ed men, all waiting to be used and abused by you tonight… One of my favourites is a site called Looking For Sex – which is full of guys and girls looking for action in South Africa! What are you waiting for?