Casual sex – it’s popular but still taboo. Find out the things that Wikipedia definitely won’t tell you about casual sex!
Wikipedia might be the biggest wealth of knowledge on the internet, but there are a few things it won’t and can’t tell you. Take casual sex for example; there’s a family-friendly clause that stops casual sex truths being spread all over the internet. Thankfully, I’ve come up with a few things that you will need to know before you start! 😉
You are going to come across dogs!
Right guys and girls, I’m going to get straight to the point. It doesn’t matter whether you are using South African online dating websites designed for adult dating or NSA fun, or you are trawling the bars for drunk men and women to have a night of unbridled passion with, you are going to come across people that you wouldn’t necessarily touch with a ten foot barge pole.
On the internet alone, I have received messages from some of the most weird and wonderful people, some of which intrigued me, and some of which totally freaked me out. Sadly, that’s something you’re going to need to come to terms with. You are likely to come across a lot of people that you wouldn’t look at twice before you find someone you’d like to get to know in greater detail.
The trick is to say no to these godawful people without actually offending them. They may not be attractive to you, but there is a good chance that they will have a friend hidden someone in the shadows that might be perfect for you… for one night anyway! 😉
“Hi, thanks for your message but I’m already talking to someone, and I think it would be inappropriate for me to message two people at once right now” will win most girls (and guys) over anytime. You sound respectful, and it’s a really nice “no” to hear. It’s not difficult – just don’t be rude. You don’t want to give yourself a name before you’ve even started.
You won’t be the sexual star you think you are!
When you first delve into the world of adult dating, one of the first things you will soon learn is the fact that you are not as good in bed as you think you are. Different people will want different things in bed, and there is a pretty good chance that you’re not going to get it right every time. If you play your cards right and open your mind enough to learn about what really gets your latest bit of stuff likes in bed, you might come out of it looking like a superstar. If you don’t, you’re going to be branded as “bad in bed”. And that’s a brand you won’t want!
You’re not going to get as inundated with messages as you think you are!
Sorry boys and girls – you are not everyone’s “cup of tea”. You could be the juiciest peach in the world and you will always come across someone that doesn’t like peaches, that’s all I’m saying. You are going to face rejection from time to time, and there will be days when you don’t get any messages. Just imagine how many other guys or girls from the region of South Africa you live in are signed up to the same adult dating site. There will always be competition – think of this as healthy competition and just make sure that your profile is as bling-tastic as it can be, and you will be well on your way to reeling in the hotties!
