A sex date – the easy way of dating with no commitment, no fluff, and no misleading over-analyzing. These are the biggest things that probably won’t happen on your sex dates!
Let’s face things with a head-on approach here, shall we? Sex dates aren’t the same as “regular” dates… I mean, yes there’s the nervousness that you’d have on a first date, but that’s excited butterflies as you know you will be taking that person home later on, and there’s a good chance you’ll be ripping their shirt clean off with your teeth. But at the same time, sex dates, NSA dates, casual dates; whatever it is that you want to call them, are very different.
1 – It doesn’t really matter anyway…
For most women, well for me anyway, it doesn’t really matter what you do on this sex date, as long as you aren’t an idiot, getting drunk and running all the way around Port Elizabeth with your trousers around your ankles, or look significantly different from your profile picture. It doesn’t matter if there are moments where you fall over, or slip over on your own trousers.
When I asked a male friend that I haven’t slept with, but been with on casual dates, he said pretty much the same thing. Guys who are looking for girls for sex, don’t generally mind what you’re like, as long as you put out later on and don’t make a complete fool of yourself.
So, be yourself is the moral of the story. Be yourself, and don’t be an idiot.
2 – They won’t want breakfast…
Again, when asking both sexes, the general consensus is that they would rather wake up to find their date gone, than make breakfast and indulge in small talk. I’m exactly the same. Waking up alone with a scribbled “thank you” on the back of an envelope is all I need. A cheeky phone number might even get you a callback if you were good enough last night. I don’t even really need your name.
Most of the casual dates I’ve been on have resulted in me waking up to an empty bed. I like the “thank you” note… It’s amazing how few men actually do it. That’s a hint guys!
3 – Age doesn’t come into it…
I’ve slept with older men, younger men, and men my own age. When asking around the friends I have that enjoy NSA dating, they work in the same pattern. If the sexual chemistry is there, it’s there. It doesn’t matter how many years are between you. I’ve had the best sex of my life with both a 45 year old man, and a 19 year old lad. Age is just a number. You’ll be amazed at the age differences that can go on in casual dating.
4 – You won’t have to hide…
Your inhibitions? You can say goodbye to those when you go on a casual sex date. When I don’t think I’m going to see the person again, I don’t care what happens between the sheets. Who cares if I let him put it in my ass, even though that’s not what good girls do? Who cares if I accidentally shout out bad words right as a I climax, dragging my nails down his rippling back as I do so? It doesn’t matter. You’re never going to see them again. And if you do, it’s just an added bonus!
It works both ways – men AND women are more likely to do things they wouldn’t do with a “regular” partner when they go on casual sex dates. That’s the whole point of going on a sex date in the first place – to get your rocks off! 😉
5 – You won’t remember “real life”…
The wife you may have at home? There’s a good chance you won’t remember her later on tonight. The boyfriend you’ve left in your bed looking after the puppy he bought you? Yeah, you probably won’t be thinking about him later. For some people, the act of casual dating and NSA dates, especially when you are already in a relationship, is the act of relief because something is missing from your home life. That’s why you can’t stay the night. That’s what you don’t want to know their name or phone number. In fact, it doesn’t matter what your real life” is, whether it’s a partner, money troubles, stress or work issues, you won’t remember; you’ll be having mind-blowing sex with someone that quite literally won’t cause you any hassle at all.
What’s not to love about that?